tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post4428450983112416414..comments2023-12-15T16:37:17.154+10:30Comments on Now where did I put that flaming sword?: SheepishArizaphalehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11402602175460446158noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-3214655221026077702009-06-16T02:59:09.311+09:302009-06-16T02:59:09.311+09:30Hi Sis. I feel a little bit sheepish too for bein...Hi Sis. I feel a little bit sheepish too for being such a nag! It's easy to give advice to others isn't it but I am hopeless at making my own decisions as you know! :>) I will keep hoping that other things will come up (but you DO need to look - sorry couldn't help myself!!! :>)little sisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-73070737310788069452009-06-11T14:15:47.704+09:302009-06-11T14:15:47.704+09:30Your sister is right, as you know. It's in you...Your sister is right, as you know. It's in your power to do something about - so do so. There's nothing wrong with a good whinge, but at some point you've got to - if you'll forgive an old southern expression - shit or get off the pot.A Free Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01038930031019179647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-34790637898537974452009-06-09T02:27:22.439+09:302009-06-09T02:27:22.439+09:30How well you put it!!!How well you put it!!!Arizaphalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11402602175460446158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-27425233055990617842009-06-09T01:46:41.333+09:302009-06-09T01:46:41.333+09:30Yeah well...I don't particulary want to brush ...Yeah well...I don't particulary want to brush my teeth either, and yet I somehow manage. :-) :-) :-)<br /><br />Anyhow, I figured you would have tried problem solving with them, but it just SEEMS like by that age they should be able to come up with something! :-0 <br /><br />Then again, I remember thinking that when my kids learned to talk, that would mean I would actually get to know what they were thinking. And in reality all it meant was that the sounds coming out of their mouths were formed into words...Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10439582294571462742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-52282043046224395442009-06-07T11:10:20.347+09:302009-06-07T11:10:20.347+09:30Well now, to be honest, it sounds like you're ...Well now, to be honest, it sounds like you're talking yourself out of it. Take #4 out of the equation (because it's never as bad as it seems) and trust your gut. Give it some time and see how you feel next year. When it's really time to leave a job, I think we know. Just my 2p;)<br /><br />P.S. I watched my mom come home from a job she hated all through my teenage years and now that it's over, I'm sure she's happy she kept her pension (she was a teacher) but I still think she should have made a move and restarted, even if it meant she had to work longer.Suzerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07719521236404333324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-54798807676487678412009-06-07T09:32:03.172+09:302009-06-07T09:32:03.172+09:30Thanks Aunty Jill. I do talk to them about 'ho...Thanks Aunty Jill. I do talk to them about 'how can we do it?' but the plain fact is, they don't WANT to do it! Problem solving is not the strength of these lower ability classes and self discipline is right out. Put them in groups (and believe me I've tried) to do anything and they climb the walls. These are the times I end up with profanities carved into the desks.>:-(<br />But you have some good points regarding setting a goal for the future. Now what I would reaaaaally like is to get back into school management but I feel a bit of a charlatan in this regard as I currently cannot manage my own classes :-)Arizaphalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11402602175460446158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7482552275229203298.post-48175504055556839622009-06-07T00:12:38.307+09:302009-06-07T00:12:38.307+09:30It is amazing how much easier it gets every year a...It is amazing how much easier it gets every year at the same school. The first year at my current school it took me half the school year just to find the bathroom closest to my classroom! <br /><br />I know it sounds like a little thing, but every minute really does count & when you can save five or ten minutes a day by not having to walk to the office bathroom, it gets to be a big deal. And there are always a hundred little things like that - it adds up!<br /><br />So if you do decide to stay, I was wondering if you've tried any problem solving with those groups? It's worked VERY rarely for me, but sometimes it does work. And your guys are bigger - getting a 3-5 year old to problem solve, there are only usually a couple in class that are even capable. Your guys would be more capable but perhaps not willing. But something like, "When we practice this way you say it's babyish. But when I go back to that way you all call it boring. We have to get it knocked out somehow. What do you think we should do? I'll give you X amount of time to think about it and then you can hand in some ideas." Or something like that? <br /><br />Maybe you could make a goal for getting back into primary if you really want to? Like, you're enjoying the stability NOW but maybe three to five years the stability won't seem like such a big deal. <br /><br />It's hard for me to fathom the rejection part. I'm about as sensitive to rejection as they come, but here in Texas if you have a head on your shoulders & a degree, you can pretty much get hired for the lower grades. So it's not all that risky as far as rejection is concerned. In fact if you're ready for big change, you can move here. I think there are several houses for sale in our neighborhood... :-) :-) :-)Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10439582294571462742noreply@blogger.com